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1.Self Awareness. Appreciate yourself.Know that you have unique strengths, talents and qualities, and the ability to make changes, learn, grow and just be. Affirm who you are, know yourself, the limitations, boundaries and strong areas that makes up you.Being self aware helps us to think before we react 2.Positive MindsetThe way we think has a huge impact on how we see the world.With a

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As someone that is goal orientated, this book really helped me to refocus, as it provided clear, practical and inspiration quotes, examples, evidence and research that encourages’ one to achieve their goals, and how to go about doing it. The purpose of this book is to reassure anyone who wants to achieve their goals, to have the method and plan to do it. Power and Dingle use research from many

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When I achieve a goal, I feel very excited, happy and proud of myself for achieving and accomplishing my goals. I felt hopeful for the future, and I was thinking how capable I can be when I put my mind to something important to me. “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve!- W. Clement Stone Mental health is a state of being. A perception of the world around us. It can

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Attribute 1 Good communication and listening skills Reflections: Taking care of being able to clearly express ideas and concerns is essential for the true meaning to come across, and thinking about the right timing. Giving positive feedback and evolving all in decision making, supports a smooth process and promotes cooperation. Examples: At one stage I felt emotional vulnerable by some personal

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I wrote this blog post for another site Iam on for International woman's day, back in early March. Just wanted to shared it. "The woman who survives intact and happy must be at once tender and tough. She must have convinced herself or be in the unending process of convincing herself, that she, her values and her choices are important -Maya Angelou. I hope that every woman can find the inner

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I get some great emails, and I agree with the qualities this sister was writing about have a read. Enjoy! and put into practice! Do you want to improve your life? Do you want to be more awesome, but just don’t know how to go about peeling off the unnecessary layers? > I’ve put together a list of 79 ways you can improve your life which I will be sharing with you for the next few months. > > So

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http://youtu.be/m6Vj2eJA80w Scarf-be proud of your hijab, check it out.

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"Fear more the sin when you are out of sight, it is where your witness is also your judge."-Imam Ali Bin Abi Talib If only we didnt sin, if only we love him more than anything else, if only we supported and valued each others iman and honor,reputation. If only.....

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I have taken this paragraph explaining one of the supplications of the Prophet to be, ‘O Allāh, turner of the hearts, turn our hearts towards your obedience(Muslim). It reminded me of how much we need Allahswt to keep one guided, that its scary that he can turn the heart away from his path, by our intentions and actions, especially in times of trails or hardship Taken from http://

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I wrote this a year ago in as part of a speech I did to a Muslim Youth Group. I wanted to share it. "Be grateful for those around you, especially the ones that support you. They may not be with you tomorrow. Be grateful and respectful of your love ones, to have true and sincere love in a great gift that should be nurtured. Don’t let the pursuit of life take you away from spending quality time

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Tips to reduce Stress Tawakkul - reliance on Allah Exercising contentment and patience Go for a walk or start exercising Learn relaxation techniques Enjoy nature and the outdoors Adopt a new skill Know your strengths Think positive Manage your time, realistically Attend social functions/invitations Volunteer your skills and time for worthy causes Read quran

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Its been a long time since I have sat down and wrote my personal reflections of my life. I cant believe how much I have changed since my last blog post. Iam so much more at peace. I have so much more inner understanding and acceptance, really accepted life as it comes, who I am and the precious people around me. I no longer take things so seriously. I no longer let what people say or do hurt me.

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This is the blog I was refering to http://timetravelmaster.blogspot.com/2010/04/hayaatan-tayyibah-goodly-life.html

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salams all,I watch this advice on the above blog and thougth about how it really is the way I feel. Like it was mentioning how we should always think when we do anything would Allahswt be please with it? It was talking about how percious life is, time is , health is and how all these aspects of our life, from the food we eat, the air we breath, the heart that beats inside how bodies are all from

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Salam, Narrated AbuUmamah: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who avoids quarrelling even if he were in the right, a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids lying even if he were joking, and a house in the upper part of Paradise for a man who made his character good. (Book #41, Hadith #4782) May Allahswt help us to

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Mashallah haven had time to look at blogs or write in my blog for a while now. Kids have been such a handful alhumidallah. I have been reading alot and just finish this great little book called "The road to good friendship" by Abdul Malki Al-Qasim, a darusslam publications. I like Darussalum publications as they usually publish goo sounding literature. Some of what I like I will quote here, as

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What a beautiful day today in Perth mashallah. My son hurt his foot jumping on the trampoline, so we have been doing activities on the net (mainly quran). Every day I get my boys to spend a small amount of time (depending on age)listening to Quran. I like them to listen to Quran so they follow the way the qari is reciting, following the tajwid.My favourite site for my 5 year old is

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I have been taking time to really enjoy my family laterly. I try to take my boys every second day somewhere (when my oldest is not at school), so they can enjoy what God has given them them. When we are enjoying some aspect of life, I remind them to be grateful to the Creator for giving them the means to have the experience they are having. So if I take them to the park, or a swimming lesson or

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For a while now I have put my major goal of studying and completing my degree on the back-burner so I can focus on my aspiration to enjoy motherhood more and to take it one day at a time, due to health reasons. Iam really enjoying the slower pace of life (will there is many things to do everyday, but Iam less stress and more content inside), so I take things as bearable and more inspired to live

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Is it not a great thing to have faith? People are always talking about stupid things that are done in the name of Islam that are not even from Islam! I mean just recenlty I read the heading of a newspaper articule which said "Somaila lady lash for having a bra"...now thats really dumb because all the muslim woman I know wear bras and nothing has happen to them. A good sports bra is very much

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I like these two saying and when I find good sayings, Iam going to post them up to remind myself.Ibn Ata'illah said " Do not keep company with anyone who state does not inspire you and whose speech does not lead you Allahswt"Ali RA said "Resignation to the will of God is the cure of the disease of the heart."Its all about true faith. If my friends and people i take company with inspire me to do

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Life just keeps on going. Its funny how a person can be in a certain state of mind and others know how they are feeling or are kind of aware of their situation ,but continue to go on in life either ignoring or unsure how to help that person. Once the true understanding comes in to life, its not one that you want to embrace with flying colours. One thing I dislike about life is my boys figthing.

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I had an operation in late July. It was suppose to be a normal op, with recover after a few days. After two weeks, I still unwell. Its been hard and I have had a lot of patience. I contracted an infection, which made me really sick. Its only when your soo sick, hallucating from the fever, that one realises that The Guardian Lord is your true companion. Like I know my creator is always there, but

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Just wanted to share one of my favorite quotes, "In accordance with how good your expectations of and hope in allahswt are and how truthful your reliance and trust are in him, Allahswt will not betray your hopes in the least, as Heswt does not betray your hopes of those who hope and does not cause any effort to go to waste" Said by Abu-Muhammad al-Maqdisi in Salt prison in Jordan. From "

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I have been thinking why do we have such a need to have people acknowledge our existence? I know people that need others to constantly give attention to, and others that are very famously happy to be by themselves, in their own world. I think we all go thru stages when we can be bits of both, but the personality of a person I believe is kind of "set" in a certain matter, changing ever soo slowly

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It makes me anger and sad at the same time that this muslim woman had to be killed because of his hatred of Islam. It raises sooo many questions that no-one wants to answer. Because if they answer them, the very real realisation of how much hate there is in the world for muslims and islam...we all felt it after 9/11. I remerber that morning walking into Tafe and the whole class going silence and

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I loved this quote on "chasing jannah" blog...."Not interested in living that fake lifestyle, where looks and money get you with the "cool" crowd but once it's all gone, you're back to being a nobody. True beauty isn't about how many model contracts you get, it's how you live your life and treat others. When I see a Sister, I can see the noor in her face that reflects taqwa and good manners. Even

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Ohhh life. Its hard being a mother, wife, friend,daugther, step-mother ,sister and overall meeting all the needs and demands that is required of me. I feel at times that it seems all too much, especially with little outside support. But, what helps me is "talking' to Allahswt. I make little prays througthout my day asking for his swt help, direction, strength to go on; patience to get thru. I

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The Characteristics of the Seeker of Happiness“…The seeker of Allah and the Hereafter – rather, the one who seeks to obtain all knowledge, productiveness, and leadership, such that he is a leader who is taken as an example in all of this – should be brave, bold, in control of his whims, and not under the control of his imagination. He should be abstinent from everything except that which he is

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In my life I spend time contemplate the nature of this temporary, short yet percious life of ours and the ones connected to me. Allahswt, the creator and sustainer, put us on this earth to contemplate and understand what our existance on this earth is, to submit our will, desires and goals to please him alone. Life is a test, and the ones with the most strength of character, patience and

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